Look up former lovers, and men who had previously courted you unsuccessfully, and let them know that you are available to them. Let them know that if they still have any desire for you, or if they feel they have any “unfinished business” or unresolved anger towards you, you would like to help them deal with it. Let them know that whatever conditions or limitations you placed on them no longer apply, that they can now have access to you with no strings attached.