One of the sexiest things you can do to set the mood is to get your man to help you dress. A lot of women prefer to do this alone, but incorporating him into your dressing can be extremely intimate and sexual. Make him kiss you, worship you, and guide your feet into a pair of high heels all while he is naked. You’ll feel extremely sexy while this is going on, as a big part of femdom is dressing to the role. A few must haves: stockings, high heels, lipstick, lace, or a corset or teddy.
You can take it as far as you want: he can help you shave your legs, apply lotion to your body, etc. I like to force my man to lick my ass as I’m putting on my makeup and lipstick. He should 100% not be touching himself during this time though and must be punished if he does.
He should also organize all of your sex toys and have them laid out so that you can easily access everything you want.