This secret fantasy is one of the few to blend reality with the imaginary, because when we’re fantasizing about the highlight reel, we’re remembering excellent times we’ve had (or things we’ve watched) that get our motor running. A lot of women may worry that this accounts for some type of emotional infidelity, because you’re imagining a past partner when you’re with your current one, but it has nothing to do with cheating. Instead, relying on the highlight reel in your head to get you in the mood is extremely common, because it’s tangible evidence of a past event that made you feel good. Instead of looking at this secret fantasy as an example of unhappiness in your current relationship or romantic situation, take it with a grain of salt for the nostalgia that it is and maybe see if there’s a common denominator in all these memories that you might want to bring into your current personal life!
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