What's your definition of a slut?

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I feel like I would fit into most mens ideas of the word slut. But the thing about it is that, to me, slut is kind of a compliment. I have alot of sex. I know what I am doing when it comes to sex. This makes me threatening to men because they cannot just bullshit sex with me (like most men have for centuries under the protection of female oppression/claims that women have no enjoyment of sex) because I demand a certain amount of skill and enjoyment. So the word slut was coined to make it shameful for women to be good at and enjoy sex, because then niggas cant get away with just worrying about their needs. Well fuck that noise. 

Also, for the definition, I don’t think there IS a definition for the word slut. Is it a girl who enjoys sex? has alot of sex? has alot of partners? also, why is there no male counterpart? In truth I really think that the word slut is a patriarchal construct to villianify a womens right to say yes to sex, enjoy sex, and know her way around sex. Making the word slut a negative term gives men the upper hand because it says ‘I mean hey, you COULD embrace you sexuality, but like, you dont want to be like THAT girl right? shes a slut. You should stay ignorant and let me do whatever the shit I want in bed and also only sleep with me and THEN you wont be a slut ok’. it is suCH BULLSHIT.

Still, however, I know that the term in generally unfavorable and using it to describe yourself just sounds weird and like you have some kind of bullshit feminist agenda or something. 

So, here are some of my favorite ‘slut’ alternatives: 

• Strumpet
• Wench
• Jezebel
• Minx
• Ditty-bag
• Fornicatress
• Floozy
• Vixen
• Hoyden
• Bimbo
• Tramp
• Harlot
• Jade
• Tart
• Trollop
• Vamp
• Bint
• Chippie
• Diva

I find that most of these are acceptable, and everyone will understand your meaning (well….most everyone) without connotating it to something dirty and without moral value. Have fun!