1. Watch adult movies together
Men are very visual creatures and most men watch adult movies. They don’t, however, admit it to their girlfriends because they fear ridicule (you know, the same reason you’re afraid to ask him to spank you during sex). Try surprising your guy by bringing home an adult movie, and asking him to watch it with you. I highly doubt you’ll make it through the entire film without getting naked.
2. Try food in the bedroom
There’s this great scene in 9 ½ Weeks where Mickey Rourke is feeding Kim Basinger food as he has her blindfolded in front of the fridge. It’s one of the best erotic scenes of any movie.
You can try this little kinky trick on your guy by drizzling honey on his chest and licking it off, or running a strawberry along his chest and then seductively sucking on it before you take a bite, and kiss him with its sweet juices still in your mouth. Yeah, it works.
3. Pull out the blindfold
You can get a little kinkier by blindfolding your boyfriend and spending a little extra time on the foreplay. If you don’t have a blindfold, a sleep mask will work just fine. Or, if you prefer to be the dominated one, lie naked on the bed with the blindfold on yourself and let him have his fun while you enjoy the service he’s giving you.
4. Handcuff him
Handcuffs are an excellent introductory tool to bondage play, and they can really get kinky. Handcuffs prevent your lover from guiding you and leave you in full control! If you pair them with the blindfold, then his mind will be blown. Do yourselves a favor and get soft handcuffs, the kinds that are lined with fur, so you don’t injure your wrists while you’re having wild sex.
5. Have sex in the shower
One of the sexiest places to have sex is in the shower. All too often people get used to just having sex in the bedroom, but you don’t have to get crazy to get a little kinky. Slip into the shower with your man while he’s cleaning up from a long day at work, and watch how fast the worries of the day wear off him.
6. Don’t wear panties
A quick and easy way to add something kinky into your daily routine is to go commando. That’s right, wear a skit and don’t wear any panties. Let your guy know you’re not wearing any panties whether by whispering it subtly in his ear, or by sliding his hand up your skirt and letting him feel for himself. Panties are cute, but commando is kinky.
7. Try a sixty-nine
I know a lot of people who don’t do this one, but if you and your guy give each other simultaneous oral sex (also known as a sixty-nine), it can really do a lot for your orgasms. There’s something about simultaneous getting and receiving oral pleasure that really makes the orgasm stronger and more intense. This is a great way to get kinky before you try the handcuffs or food.
8. Use edible massage oils
There’s no sense in stopping at food, though. There are plenty of companies that sell edible massage oils, and some of them heat up when you blow on them. They’re tasty, they’re warm, and they’re very sexy when added to your oral pleasures. Edible massage oils are definitely a kinky must in anybody’s bedroom.
9. Play sexy board games
Go to your local adult store, and look around the game section. There are a lot of kinky board games meant to tease and please you, as you spend a night at home alone with your man. Some of them seem kind of cheesy (okay, most of them seem kind of cheesy), but they’re all very good at getting you naked and stimulated! They certainly add some kink into your sex life.
10. Send him naughty texts while he’s at work - MY FAVORITE
Finally, remind your man of all the kinky things he has waiting for him at home. Send him sexy texts while he’s at work, and get him hot and bothered and ready for you as soon as he walks in the door.
Sexting is popular and fun and you’re only limited by your own imagination! Plus, it’s often easier to be kinky with someone by text because you don’t have to worry about seeing their reaction. Once the texts get hot and heavy, you’ll find that they’re an amazing turn on for both of you!
Adding a little bit of kinky fun into the bedroom will certainly enhance your sex life. So tell me, what kind of fun things are you going to try?
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