Seduce your man

Sometimes the easiest things in life are the hardest things to do. Because we let our minds get in the way. Let go and play!

I think many people like to be pleasured and to give pleasure, but most women are so uncomfortable with their bodies that they make love in the dark or in a dimly lit room or not at all. Forget that! Sex is fun so read on and bring the romance and sex back into your life.

The art of seduction starts with confidence and light. I am going to share with you my secrets to seducing a man, whether it be your husband, the guy you've had a crush on for years or an ex you're trying to win back. This tried and true methods work and they work well!

These are easy to follow steps that any woman of any size or shape can do. The first step is the hardest.

Step one- stand in front of a full length mirror fully naked. Look at all your curves ( don't focus on budges or rolls!) look at the way your breasts lay, look at the roundness of your butt. Feel your skin. Is it soft? Could it benefit from some cream or oil? Soft skin is one key element in seduction. take care of your skin and get it as soft as possible. Run your hands all over your body when applying the lotion. Feel yourself. See how nice you feel in your own hands? One thing to remember is that men are touchy. They like to feel what they see, so make it feel nice.

Step two- let all your "fears" go. if you think you look sexy and "act" sexy- men will think you are sexy too.Confidence is sexy. Women who love themselves get more action then the quiet wall flower. Tell your self you are beautiful. Repeat these lines to yourself OUT LOUD.

"I am so hot...look at how my breast lay so nicely here."

"Look at my famine curves"

"I am a sex goddess whose love juices are ready to flow"

These affirmations will get your mind ready for the journey ahead.

Say anything that you like about your body and your love making ability. act like a little dirty slut if you have to. Just get your mind set.

These next steps will depend on the relationship you have with the man you are trying to seduce.

Let's say its your husband. If you are like most women, your husband works, comes home, watches TV then goes to bed. Without much of a glance at you. well now its time to change that.

Obviously if you have children you want to wait until they go to sleep but the seduction can begin well before he's even home from work.

Utilize what you know. Does your hubby pack a lunch every day? If he does, hide a sexy note in his lunch bag. Something like: " I'm feeling a little frisky today stallion, maybe later you can help Miss Kitty cool down.." Leave an air of mystery in the note.

Be creative. If his job can be turned into something sexy use it. You'll leave him wondering what you have in store for him all day!

Don't stop there. Call him or email and tell him that you've been having bad thoughts about him all day. You can also throw in a "do you remember when we..." or "I saw something online I thought you might like. "

Getting into your man's head is half of the battle.

But again don't stop there. Take it to the next level, by teasing anyway you can.

Before he arrives, get all dolled up. Naturally. Maybe have a little messy hair. Don't wear panties or a bra. And tell him you're not. Act like you forgot to put them on because you were thinking so much about him all day. Make sure your lips are plump, red and shiny. When he comes home, even if the kids are still floating around, use touch to entice him. "Accidentally" brush your hand across his pants or his butt. whisper in his ear how you can't wait until later to play. Or you can pretend he has been a naughty boy and might need a spanking for making you wait so long to be pleased.

Use your eyes. Give him your sexy bedroom eyes. (practice in the mirror- its fun!)

When the time finally comes to get involved with the love making. Leave the lights on. Slowly undress him neck down first, maybe dance a little for him and undress slowly. Play peek a boo with your breasts. shake your butt in his face. Men love breasts in their face too. They don't have them and are fully intrigued with them. Play before the intercourse. Take things slow. Suck, lick and rub everything you can get your hands on. And don't only focus on the things that first come to mind, pay attention to his fingers, the back of his neck, his back. Run your tongue over his whole body all the while looking up at him. Enjoy him and your body. Rub your body all over him too. He will love it no matter how fat you think you are.

Move into the intercourse after at least 1/2 hour of foreplay.

Don't just lay there. Ride, roll, flip and flop. MOVE your hips! Roll your hips thrust your hips towards him. He will be putty in your hands. (unfortunately he might not last too long, but at least you'll know you can seduce your man!