I’ve
been asked quite a few times to detail how I go down on guys. That’s an
incredibly hard question to answer though, since it’s different every
single time. I make a special effort to make sure I don’t just rely on
the same thing every time I’m with my partner, as that can get boring
for both of us. Obviously, I know what really feels great for him and
what works the best (different for every guy), so I make sure I add that
in by the end, but it’s fun to always experiment and try new things.
That said, if I’m with a guy for the first time and just exploring to
see what feels the best for him, I do tend to stick with a pretty
general ‘format’ so to speak. So I’ll do my best to outline what I do
here so you can maybe try it with your partner to help change things up
and help learn some new things that he’ll absolutely love. And on
another note- feel free to tie your partner up and/or blindfold him
while doing this. One last warning- not every man likes to be teased
like this. So if you find that he’s squirming too much or you can tell
that he simply isn’t enjoying himself, then get to his penis a lot
faster. It’s all about paying close attention to how he responds as well
as feeling comfortable enough to actually ask questions and talk about
it.
So you start off with your usual
making out and stripping off of the clothes. Once you’re both good and
naked, you lie him down on his back (the bed tends to be the most
comfortable) and straddle his body. Start by just kissing his lips and
then move out to other areas of his face/ears and down his neck. I
personally love the 2 steps forward, one step back ‘technique’, which
should be pretty self-explanatory. So you move from his face, to his
neck, to his chest, then you go back up to his neck before going back
down to his chest then his nipples, then back up to his chest, etc etc. I
honestly do this all over his body. I try to hit as many areas as
possible. I also don’t totally stick with the same pattern, as that gets
a bit too repetitive and predictable. So I’ll be at his navel and pop
back up to his lips, for example. Some really great spots to hit on most
guys are their obliques (the sides of his abs and almost around to his
back), the hipbone area, pubic mound and inner thighs. As we all know,
every guy is different though, so you may be surprised when you come to
another part of his body and he starts to really moan.
I
keep doing this and come as close to his penis and balls as I can get
without touching them and keep moving downward. Many men love it when
you suck on their toes, but that totally depends on your own comfort as
well as his. Inch your way back up, again, coming incredibly close to
his package but then go up past it. Eventually you start circling in
towards his penis. When I finally get there, I give a ridiculously
slow, long lick with the flat part of my tongue (like licking an ice
cream cone) all the way up from the base of his shaft to his coronal
ridge (I’m avoiding the glans at this point). I alternate those with
super quick, sharp flicks of my tongue all over his shaft. I’ll then
lick my hand to get it really wet (his shaft is already pretty wet, as I
don’t swallow any of my spit... I let it all come out on his penis) and
I start stroking his penis as I move my mouth back to his balls. Here
I’ll either pop them straight into my mouth, while I swirl my tongue
around and over them while moaning or I’ll start by just licking the
balls and swirling my tongue around them while they’re outside of my
mouth before popping them in. Some guys hate ball play and it can
actually be painful for them, so make sure you’ve asked beforehand. If
you’re not comfortable with asking, then start really tentatively with
light licks before putting his balls in your mouth and pay attention to
how he responds.
I use my hands a lot
while giving head. It’s all about playing with the speed, the grip
strength and where you stroke the shaft. So experiment with ridiculously
slow strokes to a more rapid speed, as well as using a tight grip and a
grip that he can barely feel. Alternate between just stroking the
shaft; just stroking the glans; and stroking right from the base of his
shaft all the way up to the tip of his glans. While stroking, make sure
you use a gentle twisting motion with your wrist. Once you’re happy with
the amount of ball play (which you return to throughout the blow job),
then move your head back to his shaft. Slowly lick from the base up to
the glans while looking him in the eye and smiling. Many guys absolutely
love eye contact during oral and that evil, naughty grin in your eyes
makes it that much more fun. Remember, you need to be enjoying this too!
This
is when I stick my tongue out and circle/swirl it around the glans
(still making eye contact with my partner) while wrapping one hand
around the base of his shaft. I then bring his glans into my mouth while
I keep swirling my tongue around and around on it. I gradually move my
mouth lower and lower down his shaft while still maintaining that tongue
movement. You’ll eventually reach a point where your tongue won’t
physically move that way anymore, which is when I switch to just moving
the tongue side to side while pressing it up against his shaft as I move
my mouth down on it. If you have a bad gag reflex, only go as far down
as you’re comfortable. There’s no need to try to force yourself to
deepthroat. Once I’m all the way down though, I tend to stay there and
just move my mouth up and down about an inch or so, starting slow and
then building up pace. Then I very very slowly bring my mouth back up to
the tip (where I tend to repeat everything I’ve said in this
paragraph!).
As I build momentum, I start
to use my hands more. By now his penis tends to be totally soaked in my
saliva, which means my hand(s) easily glide up and down. If you’re not
able to give really wet blowjobs, definitely use lube that you enjoy the
taste of, or eat something sugary to make your saliva thick and sticky (I love skittles which is my nickname in some circles. ;-D ). I tend to grasp his penis with one hand, attaching my thumb
and forefinger to my lips so it feels like my mouth and hands are one
unit as I slide down and up his shaft (still using the twisting motion
with my hand). My other hand tends to reach down and play with his balls
as well as putting pressure on his perineum (if your guy likes anal,
then this is when you can pop a lubed-up finger in). Another thing I
like to do is open my mouth and lips wide and try to make it down as far
as I can on his shaft without really touching it. Once I’m all the way
down, then I close my mouth/lips tightly around the shaft and pull up. I
do that multiple times before surprising him with pursing my lips
really tight and letting his glans enter my mouth like that, and go all
the way down to the base of the shaft. At that point, I open my mouth
really wide and pull right off him without him getting to feel it. I do
that multiple times before allowing him to feel my lips staying tightly
around him on the way down and up (and that’s when I return to the
technique I discussed at the start of this paragraph).
I
also like to take breaks where I can sit up and just look at him and
smile. While doing that, I use both my hands on his penis (which, again,
is super wet) and stroke him up and down with both hands stacked on top
of one another (although, that depends on the length of the guy’s
penis). I gently twist my hands in opposite directions.... just enough
so he gets the stimulation, but not hard enough so there’s any risk of
actually pulling the skin and hurting him. I’ll then use one hand to
stroke him while the other hand goes over top of the glans and uses a
similar wrist-motion to squeezing out the juice of an orange on those
old-school juicers (lightly though!). I’ll also take my palm and press
it gently down over top of the glans before lightly stroking upwards,
drawing my hand up with my fingertips down, right until my fingertips
leave the glans. However, this can be too intense for some guys.
Keep
in mind that whenever my mouth is on his penis, my tongue is constantly
moving and pressing up against his penis. I also make a special effort
to hit his frenulum as much as possible, as that tends to be the most
sensitive area on the penis. I also return to all these different
techniques I’ve mentioned as the session continues, including returning
to “ignoring” the penis and stimulating his other body parts before
resuming the blow job. I tend to like edging guys, so once they’re about
to orgasm, I back off and make the stimulation much less intense so
they don’t end up cumming. I do that multiple times before finally
allowing them to orgasm. Remember though- orgasm isn’t the goal here.
The goal is to give him as much pleasurable stimulation as absolutely
possible. Have fun with it, enjoy yourself and make sure that he
reciprocates on you either in that session or in one soon after!
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