The number one secret fantasy for most women is the idea of being taken advantage of by a more experienced, powerful partner who can teach us a few new tricks of the trade. While a lot of women don’t like to mention the R-word that this imagery conjures up, it’s important to remember that just because you fantasize about such an idea does not mean under any circumstances that you wish for it to happen in real life, or that this fantasy can be used as an excuse against you. It’s just in your head for your own enjoyment, unless you’d like to take it out to play with your SO (after much discussion first, of course)!