Hi i've gone through your bj&hj tips, but can't find how to start a good hand job, and i've never really done one before. I was with a guy the other night and actually "tried" to do one for the 1st time but i think i wasn't supposed to be gentle at all in the beginning. any tips or a very general "outline" please, i'm so embarrassed, i don't wanna not know anything at all next time I'm with him, and have absolutelyy no idea.. thank you

- Livvy


There really are no rules! Just use your communication skills, ask “does this feel good?” or “do you like that?” and get him to tell you/ show you what works best for him. Everyone is different and there isn’t one formula (it would get very boring if it were the same every time!). Just take your time and be confident.