Are you too timid or lazy or terrified of rejection to send first messages on OkCupid (or other, shittier dating app)?
OR do you just saturate inboxes with hundreds of generic one-sentence messages?
Well today is going to be different. I want you to message 3 people. No more, no less.
Be picky. Read all the way through their profile before deciding if this is really one of the people you want to message.
Think about the message that you write. Don’t obsess over it, just make sure that it’s genuine and talks about at least one thing the person said in their profile.
And don’t stress it. Chances are, they won’t message you back. That’s totally true. You have to be ok with that. Just know that it’s not you. All of us have to wait through a certain amount of rejection before we find someone who digs us the way we deserve to be dug.
Ok, that’s all for now. Don’t be desperate, don’t be jaded, don’t be a turd.